After a long time I am back with something that has always transformed the way we think and live. Yes today the topic is all about those “Criticizers” that live in our society. The one who criticize you is a criticizer. Such people are found all over the world and their pure and sure religion is “Criticism”.
Let us understand why and how these people play such an important role in your life.
Friends, we have individuals around us who motivate us, guide us, inspire us and help us to rise above our limits. Such life beautifying people are many in number but difficult to find. Those who find them are fortunate because they get a never ending source of “Positivism”. So if you have one then hold yourself among the luckiest. If positive energy exist, then no doubt there exist negative energy. We are best at harnessing most out of this negative energy. Let us understand this.
Negative energy come from negative people and criticizers are among them.
What energy these criticizers impart in us? How does it affect us?….Lets us take a common example. Try to recall the day when 10th results were out. This day is supposed to be turning point in everyone’s life. Now try to recollect the people who praised you for result and those who just commented as if they have suffered the biggest loss in their life because of result. Those people criticized you so badly for result and didn’t leave any chance to put your morale down. Those handful criticizers overshadowed your joy of passing out 10th exam pushing you in depression darkness.
I hope now your concept is cleared.
There exist so many people around us who are jealous, don’t want us to move ahead and progress etc. Such people are always trying to win over us rather than wining over their own targeted goals. Also there exists people who criticize you without any reason. Example, if any negative news is published in newspaper about the most famous actor then we criticize and judge him without knowing the actual facts. See how the trust on actor was destroyed in seconds after reading the news. The amazing fact is we all belong to this category by default.
People have tendency of judging and manipulating others based on their merit. The merit rating depends upon your job, your fame, your career success rather that your nature as a living person. People are bound to you because of the image you have in Money earning markets. Money earning markets are your jobs, business and other sources of income. If you have money and fame then people follow you otherwise they talk all the possible things about you. A person suffering a drop year in engineering education is treated so badly like he has committed the worst crime in world. He is manipulated and always criticized. Even if he tries to rise then his lift is made stagnant by the critics. See how badly people affect your life.
Now its high time that everyone should learn to tackle these people. I used the word “Tackle” and not “Defend”. You prove them right while defending so try to tackle. Let them speak, don’t let their words affect you in negative way. You have to tackle them and destroy them from roots. This will happen when you get motivated by their negative words rather than getting obsessed and depressed. Believe me, don’t ever leave company of such people because they always help us if you learn the art of getting motivated by their negative thoughts. Everyone will face obstacles in their success journey. Some obstacles are eliminated by hard work and other obstacles like criticizers, they should be used in optimistic and sensible manner.
I want to turn towards conclusion.
There are positive and negative people around you. Always listen to positive ones and also listen to negative ones. From today onward thank all those who judge you, who blame you etc for what you are. Why should you thank them? Absorb that criticism and reflect it with your success. This will be the best answer you can give them and so they should be thanked because their words fueled your anger, your dedication and your focus to achieve what you desired.