Today we find so many strange things happening around us. Sometime we are their cause and other time the victims. Have you ever been in state where cause and victim both roles come across your life on same time? Yes I am talking about those BREAKS you usually take when things don’t fall in their expected place.
People usually take a BREAK to get isolated and assuming that it will throw them in that so called unknown world of peace. Let us understand why people go for a break. Its human tendency that when things go as they expect then they will get addicted to it. Addiction is so strong that when once something goes wrong then life seems to be a HELL. Some deal this with maturity and keep fighting and are able to deal it throughout the life. Remember its not called a COMPROMISE, its called PROBLEM SOLVING and ADJUSTING. Relation suffers a break because of many problems like caste issues, immature partners, ego problems, comparisons etc.
Those who put caste problem as a strong reason are the most coward people. If you cant convince your parents then you cannot achieve anything in life. The job of convincing is difficult but not impossible. Parents will never tie their child with someone with whom he/she wont be happy. Its your lack of trust on your relation which never let you try convincing your parents.
Now those who do have a break because of ego problems are most foolish ones because they never consider their partner as their OWN. Do their exist ego between you and your parents? of course not because the feeling is pure. I hope arrow struck at right place or then keep reading it again. There are many other reasons depends what priorities they are arranged.
Do you ever think of a person who suffers a BREAK? Believe me its a damn HELL for those who were seriously involved. During this tough time we waste most of time thinking for reasons and trying to sort them. Our daily schedule goes through drastic changes. Now our mornings no longer need our mobile phones to start off. Now we hardly sit in front of social networking medias. Now we avoid all those places where memories were built. Now we never turn our vehicles through those frequent roads, now we hardly have a dinner with our mobile, now we start putting a HAPPY sort of MASK on our face, Now we start spending time with our parents and suddenly visit relatives etc. Day starts with a pause and ends with pause, no PLAY button on menu………..Those who are strong at their heart and brain are capable of coming out but those who are sensitive suffer this break for a long time.
AVOID this shit of BREAK
Friends u know what?There is nothing in this world which cannot be dealt with words. Everything can be solved very easily. What we usually do is never let our relation breathe in natural air, we subject it to polluted things like chatting, phone conversations etc I mean virtual world. Come on until you spend time with your partner you wont be able to actually harness the real pleasure of relationship. Just because of restrictions, studies, carrier etc you make your relation a function of virtual world and then starts the misunderstanding phase and communication gap widens. When you have any problem with your partner why you need to let it get saturated until it burst like a volcano. This is the most common mistake all ever do. If you can appreciate your partner’s good side then instead of criticizing the bad side, you should sit together and discuss. This will solve almost all problems and relation is always a mutual decision then it should be carried with mutual understanding.
TRY THIS, ITS A CHALLENGE FOR YOU.
DO YOU HAVE PROBLEMS WITH YOUR PARTNER. CALL HIM/HER AND LET THAT VOLCANO OF MISUNDERSTANDINGS LOOSEN UPON HIM/HER. IT WILL HURT, IT WILL HIT LIKE ANYTHING ON YOUR FEELINGS , IT WILL BE WORST EXPERIENCE TO HEAR IT BUT FRIENDS THIS WILL SURELY PUT A END TO YOUR PROBLEM.
IF AFTER OPENING UP YOU BOTH FAIL TO SOLVE IT THEN TAKE BREAK. BUT KNOW IT YOU WILL WIN.. SO WIN IT AND KILL THAT SUFFERER SLAVERY SYNDROME.
LET YOUR LOVE BECOME THE THIRST WHICH DRIVES A VALUABLE CAUSE RATHER THAN THIRST WHICH KILLS YOURSELF IN LIFE.